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Canadian OnCOlOgy nursing JOurnal • VOlume 27, issue 1, Winter 2017
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all callers, regardless whether the caller
was a patient, survivor, family member,
friend, member of the general public,
or healthcare professional. In the words
of one interviewee, “It is really a service
for everyone with an interest in breast
cancer.” The service is seen as provid-
ing trustworthy, credible information
either through telephone conversations
or via written material sent by mail or
electronically. It provides a trained indi-
vidual who has been through the same
situation and who can “…listen to the
whole person”. Conversations are pri-
vate and personal, and can be held in
complete anonymity if the caller wishes.
The sta/volunteer participants
described a wide range of reasons why
clients contact Willow. The clients will
often start a conversation by identify-
ing one type of request as their reason
for calling, but the conversation often
evolves to include other emotional or
information issues. They could be cry-
ing and expressing a sense of panic at
the onset of the call or have a specic
question they want to ask.
• [we get] all kinds of calls… people
who are looking for information
about nancial support, women who
just want you to listen, women who
are really depressed, women who do
not know what to do next or what
to expect, or women who are angry.
It can be husbands of those kinds of
women, or grown children of these
women. It can be anything that’s
related to breast cancer in anyway
or… even people who didn’t even
have breast cancer, but they knew
Willow was a reputable source and
they just wanted a link, or to be
aware of links in their community.
In many instances, as the calls pro-
ceed, discussions will incorporate
aspects of both support and informa-
tion. A call motivated by the need for
emotional support will evolve into shar-
ing of information or vice versa. It can
be dicult to separate the support and
informational needs addressed during
the call, given the interwoven nature of
the conversations.
• …somebody will phone in that they
want to know where to buy a wig…
but there’s another layer beneath
that to get to. The wig is sort of an
excuse to call… and every phone call
that you take is new… need to lis-
ten to what is being said, the tone of
voice… it is easier sometimes if you
are with someone one-to-one to rec-
ognize where they are in terms of
fear, grief, joy… but to recognize it
on the phone and you can respond to
it… that’s another skill.
• Every call is dierent… most from
those who are newly diagnosed
where the predominant theme
is fear, how to manage that fear,
explaining, sort of the navigational
piece, what they can expect in terms
of seeing a surgeon, and the possibil-
ity of chemotherapy and radiation
therapy, what the treatments are
designed to do, which is to reduce the
risk of recurrence.
The majority of the calls are from
women who have been diagnosed with
breast cancer and are facing treatment
decisions or are receiving treatment,
or from their family members on their
behalf.
• It is helpful to women to hear it
from someone who has been through
it… there is so much anxiety when
you are rst diagnosed. And to speak
to someone who understands how
anxious you are, well, it kind of val-
idates their emotions. Normalizes
them; to know you’re not going
insane if you cry and then all of a
sudden you feel brave. And the next
second you are crying again. Then
you are angry… fearful… Willow
oers a shared experience and the
ability to provide information.
Experiences with calls (focus and
process during calls)
Willow sta/volunteers described
the process during the calls of listen-
ing carefully, letting the caller identify
what they wanted to discuss, and try-
ing to respond in a supportive and com-
passionate manner. They often recalled
their own experience and what they
found helpful at the time of their origi-
nal diagnosis and try to incorporate this
into their calls.
• A lot comes up in the calls about
the women feeling a lack of control
of their lives… waiting to hear back
from doctor’s oces… dealing with a
sense of isolation… you need to know
that is part of the journey… and take
people back to that normal thing, to
help them manage.
During the course of any one call,
there can be a range of topics discussed.
The sta/volunteers answering the calls
try to respond to the needs of the callers,
but are not entirely certain what direc-
tion a particular call may take at the
onset. They need to be prepared to fol-
low the lead of the caller.
• People call and sometimes they get
into what is critical right away and
to what is really bothering them.
But most of the time, there’s a back-
ground reason for the call and you
sort of have to arm what they’re
feeling… you listen to what they are
sharing and mirror it back… there’s
rarely a call that doesn’t have a layer
to it… and you might have to work
through things to get to it… and
there can be lots of needs beyond the
breast cancer experience.
The discussions during the calls may
include physical, psychosocial, spiri-
tual, and practical topics, as well as the
disease and treatment-related issues.
Examples of physical topics include
dealing with side eects, medications,
menopause, genetics, and surgery/
reconstruction. Psychosocial topics
can include dealing with fear, worries,
anger, frustration, grief, and anxiety.
Spiritual topics may cover aspects of iso-
lation, feeling alone, and joy. Practical
topic examples are dealing with
nances, navigating the cancer care sys-
tem, or nding services (e.g., wigs, pros-
theses). Interviewees emphasized that
no medical advice is given to callers; cli-
ent callers are encouraged to ask medi-
cal questions of their family physician,
oncologist or cancer nurse. Callers often
look for a dierent type of conversa-
tion than the ones they would have with
health care professionals.
• …Just simply talking to some-
body who is quote, ‘an expert on it
because they have been through it’,
it oers a sense of reassurance…you
can ask a professional these ques-
tions, but I mean, rst of all, they