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determined by psychological processes. S á ndor M á rai, one of the greatest
writers of the 20th century and a friend of Ferenczi, had this to say on the
occasion of Ferenczi ’ s death:
Ferenczi ’ s death had a completely primal effect on me: I simply couldn ’ t believe
it. When I put down the receiver that brought the news of his death, after a mo-
ment of refl ection, I called my informant and asked if he had not made a mistake.
Later, I thought about it and realized that I was hurt and angry at the death of
Ferenczi. I had a childlike idea that he had discovered something, that it didn ’ t
apply to him, that he would die when he wanted to. As far as I knew, he hadn ’ t
wanted to and [ … ] he looked down on death and life ’ s primitive structure [the
body] [ … ] he ordered a member of his family, if she happened to fi nd him,
dying, not to believe it straight away, but to shake him violently [ … ] This is what
he thought of the body; it was like a faulty clock that sometimes stops and just
needs to be shaken to get it to start ticking again [ … ] This is also why I was hurt by
his death. Perhaps he simply wasn ’ t shaken properly ( M á rai, 2000, 47 – 48 ).
Another example draws our attention to the potentially grave psychoso-
matic consequences of a frustrating mother--child relationship. The ideas
that Ferenczi put forth in his 1929 study The Unwelcome Child and His
Death Instinct also appear in the later works of other analysts. Whether
linked to Ferenczi or independent of him, these ideas were developed
further and made complete. They also brought about a change of perspec-
tive not only in the theory of psychoanalysis and in therapeutic practice,
but more generally in clinical work, as well as in infant care and in modern
childbirth. In 1929, Ferenczi thought that the symptoms of many patients
could be interpreted as psychosomatic expressions of the death instinct.
On this, there was complete agreement between him and Groddeck, who
also saw early deaths as unconscious suicides. Thus, Ferenczi writes the
following about a defi cit in early emotional relationships:
I obtained a somewhat deeper insight into the genesis of unconscious self-destructive
trends during analysis of nervous circulatory and respiratory disturbances, especially
of bronchial asthma, but also of cases of complete loss of appetite [ … ] not explicable
anatomically [ … ] patients came into the world as unwelcome guests of the family ,
so to speak [ … ] In later life, relatively slight occasions were then suffi cient motiva-
tion for a desire to die, even if this was resisted by a strong effort of will. Moral and
philosophic pessimism, scepticism, and mistrust became conspicuous character traits
in these patients [ … ] I only wish to point to the probability that children who are re-
ceived in a harsh and unloving way die easily and willingly. Either they use one of the
many proffered organic possibilities for a quick exit, or if they escape this fate, they
retain a streak of pessimism and aversion to life ( Ferenczi, 1929, pp. 103 – 105 ).
An important part of treatment is that Ferenczi allows these patients to
be children again in the psychoanalytic process, and to enjoy early primary
love, or passive object love, and, in this case, complete acceptance by the
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